Al Anon

Al Anon is a support group for the friends and family of alcoholics.Al Anon was founded by Lois Wilson. Lois Wilson is the wife of the founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. Lois was well-known and an inspiration to the people who have alcoholic loved ones.

Lois was the first of six children born to Clark and Matilda Burnham. Lois’ father practiced surgery in Brooklyn Heights, New York. She is the granddaughter of a Swedish born pastor where she was raised in that faith. She attended a kindergarten run by the Pratt Institute and later Friends School. She graduated from the Packer Collegiate Institute with a concentration in the fine arts. She had a talent for drawing, and later developed skill in interior decoration. After graduation she worked for the YWCA and later taught at a private school.

Lois and Bill met through her younger brother. Bill became an acquaintance of Roger, Lois’s younger brother and then, met Lois. Lois and Bill fell in love with each other and hoping to make a family they got married, making a long story short.

Bill Wilson was never raised in a family with a happy atmosphere. Bill Wilson was nine when his parents divorced. His alcoholic father deserted the family, and the following year his mother left Bill and his sister with her parents and moved from Vermont to Boston. Bill’s childhood and young adulthood were used up battling depression, anger, low self-esteem and guilty feelings that would exacerbate the anger, bitterness and grandiose ambitions that fueled his alcoholism.

During their marriage, Bill was still an alcohol drinker, all the more when the couple was confronted with several miscarriages and finally facing the fact that they were not able to bear children. With Bill’s problem, he had undergone darkness as any other alcoholics would. And finally, he found the light and entered a rehabilitation center. After his rehab, he started Alcoholics Anonymous. Later on, Lois started Al Anon which caters to the friends and family of alcoholics.

In 1935, after years of unsuccessfully fighting to cover for Bill and deal with his disease, Lois finally saw him take control of his alcoholism; however, his sobriety was not the result of Lois’s help, rather it came through the support of a fellow recovering alcoholic, Dr. Bob Smith. As Bill and Bob achieved lasting sobriety and co-founded Alcoholics Anonymous, Lois began to question the value she had in her own marriage. After devoting 17 years to healing her sick husband, Lois felt isolated and resentful that he had gotten sober without her help. Lois eventually discovered that she was not alone. She slowly met with the wives of the men in Bill’s program and came to realize that while Bill was addicted to alcohol, she was addicted to him – and that the family and friends of alcoholics are, in some ways, as sick as their loved ones. Lois received the necessary understanding needed to repair her fractured relationship and to help millions of others do the same. And that’s how she founded Al Anon.

Al Anon was an organization that began from Lois’ journey of having informal meetings with the friends and family of alcoholics. She was able to set up the group because she wanted to help the loved ones who experienced the same thing she did. When she began to share her deepest thoughts and feelings with others, she came to understand that she had really believed she could manipulate her husband’s life. She was totally certain that her love and inspiration was all that was necessary to carry out his every need, that her own willpower and steadfast guidance was all that was needed to quench Bill’s thirst for alcohol.

Lois served as an inspiration to the people who have suffered because their loved ones are victims of alcohol. It is certainly true that it is those people whose loved ones have become alcoholics who suffer the most. It hurts them that their loved ones have gone astray. They could not seem to bear the pain of seeing their loved ones suffer from addiction.

Al Anon is there to support the wants and desires and the problems of the loved ones of people who suffer from alcohol abuse.

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